Last week I was thankful for tiny little things like jalapeños.
This week I’d like to appreciate my washing machine.
Not just for washing my clothes, but for reminding me to “do all things with love”.
There’s a story behind this.
There was a time when I was one miserable human being who felt that she had no purpose in life.
I was always tired and had very little motivation to do anything at all.
And like a lot of lost souls, I tried to find solace in whatever was available.
Books, books and more books.
Then I became desperate, realising that I was not getting any answers out of books.
One day a friend suggested that I go and check out a “Wellness Centre” that had everything from yoga, tarot cards to spiritual healing. I was willing to give anything a try, even Ouja Boards if they had some. Problem was, I didn’t have any spare cash to spend on something I considered “frivoulous”.
I went anyway. There were different people who had set up different stalls and corners offering art therapy and various types of readings. I kept a distance, close enough to be nosey and far enough that I did not make eye contact with anyone.
The voice and tone sounded so warm and familiar that it made me stop and turn around.
It was an older lady behind a table covered with dozens of small vials of what I could only describe as coloured liquid. The moment I turned around she handed me a small basket and said, “Pick three!”
“I can’t afford this.”
“It’s OK, you need this. It’s free.”
My logical mind was convinced that this sweet older lady with a German accent wanted to swindle me, but my emotional mind was so sad and desperate that when she said “you need this” I agreed wholeheartedly.
I don’t remember what bottles I chose and what their meanings were, but I just remember the lady telling me that I had one purpose here on earth – to learn to love.
It scared me that she told me something that I had been struggling to figure out, but my logical mind of course wanted to challenge that.
“And how do I that?”
“Simple. Do all things with love. For example, when you do the laundry, do it with love. Fold your child’s clothes with love and appreciate how lovely it is to have a small child and to be able to give her clean clothes to wear.”
“I appreciate having a washing machine too, I don’t need to wash everything by hand.”
“Exactly! Just do this, and watch how everything changes. Your happiness will come when you learn to love.”
I went home that day and did what she suggested. It was not an instant fix. I am still learning to “do all things with love” and there are days when I have doubts, but I know that happiness is no longer elusive and my happiest moments are always the ones when I am doing things with love.
And that is why, I appreciate my washing machine.
P.S. I never got a chance to thank this older lady for what she has given me. A chance and a way to find happiness. So every chance I have to share this with someone who’d listen, I see it as a way to pay her back for all the happiness that has come my way.